ﺃﻋﻂ ﻟﻠﺤﺪﺙ ﺃﻭ ﻟﻠﻜﻼﻡ ﺗﻌﺒﻴﺮﺍً ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻮﺟﻪ ﻳﻨﺎﺳﺒﻪ ﺃﻭ
ﻛﻼﻣﺎً ﻳﻼﺋﻤﻪ
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< ﻓﻜّﺮ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﻮﻗﻒ ﺍﻟﺮﺍﻫﻦ ﻻ ﺑﺸﻰﺀ ﻣﻀﻰ ﺃﻭ ﺷﻰﺀ
ﻣﺴﺘﻘﺒﻠﻲ ﺇﻻ ﻋﻨﺪ ﺟﻠﺴﺔ ﺳﻜﻮﻥ ﻭﺗﺄﻣﻞ
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< ﺇﻥ ﻛﺎﻥ ﻟﺪﻳﻚ ﻓﻜﺮﺓ ﺃﻭ ﻧﺼﻴﺤﺔ ﻓﺎﻋﺮﺿﻬﺎ ﺑﺄﺳﻠﻮﺏ
ﺣﺴﻦ ﻭﺍﺿﺢ ﻭ ﻻ ﺗﺄﻣﺮ ﺑﻬﺎ ﻏﻴﺮﻙ ﻟﻴﻨﻔﺬﻫﺎ ﺇﻻ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﺗﺤﺖ
ﺇﻣﺮﺗﻚ ﻭ ﺳﻠﻄﺘﻚ
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< ﻻ ﺗﺨﺎﻃﺐ ﻓﺮﺩﺍً ﺣﺘﻰ ﻳﻨﺘﻬﻲ ﻣﻦ ﻛﻼﻣﻪ ﻭ ﻗﺎﺑﻠﻪ ﺑﻈﺎﻫﺮ
ﻛﻼﻣﻪ ﻻ ﺑﻈﻨﻮﻥ ﻭ ﺗﺨﺮﺻﺎﺕ ﻣﺴﺒﻘﺔ ﻟﺪﻳﻚ
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< ﻋﻮّﺩ ﻧﻔﺴﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻋﺪﻡ ﺍﺳﺎﺀﺓ ﺍﻟﻈﻦ ﺑﺎﻵﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﺇﻻ ﺑﻤﺎ
ﻳﻘﺘﻀﻴﻪ ﻇﺎﻫﺮ ﺍﻟﻜﻼﻡ ﺃﻭ ﺍﻟﺤﺎﻝ
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< ﺇﺫﺍ ﻛﻨﺖ ﻓﻲ ﻣﻮﻗﻒ ﻣﺎ ﺃﻭ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻫﻴﺌﺔ ﻣﻌﻴﻨﺔ ﻓﺘﺼﺮﻑ
ﻭﻓﻖ ﺍﻟﺸﺮﻉ ﺍﻟﻤﻄّﻬﺮ ﺑﻤﺎ ﻳﻨﺎﺳﺐ ﺫﻟﻚ ﺍﻟﻤﻮﻗﻒ ﺃﻭ ﺗﻠﻚ
ﺍﻟﺤﺎﻝ
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< ﻣﺎ ﺗﻜﻨﻪ ﻟﻠﻐﻴﺮ ﻣﻦ ﺧﻴﺮ ﻭ ﺣﺐ ﺃﻇﻬﺮﻩ ﻭﻻ ﺗﺠﻌﻠﻪ ﻛﺎﻣﻨﺎً
ﻓﻲ ﻧﻔﺴﻚ ﻭﺍﻟﻌﻜﺲ ﺑﺎﻟﻨﺴﺒﺔ ﻟﻠﺸﺮ ﻭﺍﻟﺒﻐﺾ
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< ﺇﺫﺍ ﻋﻤﻠﺖ ﻋﻤﻞ ﻃﺎﻋﺔ ﺃﻭ ﻓﻌﻞ ﺧﻴﺮ ﺃﻭ ﺳﻨﺔ ﻓﻼ ﺗﻌﻘّﺐ
ﺫﻟﻚ ﺃﻭ ﺗﺴﺒﻘﻪ ﺑﺪﻟﻴﻞ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻘﺮﺁﻥ ﺃﻭ ﺍﻟﺴﻨﺔ ﻳﺆﻳﺪ ﺫﻟﻚ ﺇﻻ
ﺃﻥ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﻣﻌﻠﻤﺎً ﻟﻤﻦ ﺃﻣﺎﻣﻚ ؛ ﺧﺸﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺮﻳﺎﺀ
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< ﺃﻭﻝ ﻛﻼﻡ ﻣﻊ ﺍﻟﻀﻴﻒ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﻟﺴﻼﻡ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻄﻠﺐ ﻣﻨﻪ
ﺍﻟﺘﻔﻀﻞ ﻭﺗﺮﺣﺐ ﺑﻪ
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< ﻋﻨﺪ ﻣﺎ ﺗﺴﻠﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺃﺣﺪ ﻓﻠﻴﻜﻦ ﻭﺟﻬﻚ ﺗﻠﻘﺎﺀ ﻭﺟﻬﻪ ﻣﻊ
ﺍﺑﺘﺴﺎﻣﺔ ﻣﺸﺮﻗﺔ ﻹﻥ ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻲ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﻳﻘﻮﻝ :
ﺗﺒﺴﻤﻚ ﻓﻲ ﻭﺟﻪ ﺃﺧﻴﻚ ﺻﺪ ﻗﺔ
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< ﻻ ﺗﺪﺧﻞ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﻓﻲ ﻣﺸﺎﻛﻠﻚ ﻭﻫﻤﻮﻣﻚ ﻓﻠﺪﻳﻬﻢ ﻣﺎ
ﻳﻜﻔﻴﻬﻢ
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ﺗﻌﻈﻤﻬﻢ ﻭﺗﺨﺎﻓﻬﻢ ﻭﺗﺮﺟﻮﻫﻢ ﻭﺗﻌﻠّﻖ ﻗﻠﺒﻚ ﺑﻬﻢ ، ﻭ ﻻﺟﻔﺎﺀ
ﻓﻴﻬﺎ ﻓﺘﺤﺘﻘﺮﻫﻢ ﻭ ﺗﺰﺩﺭﻳﻬﻢ ﻭ ﺗﺘﻜﺒﺮ ﻋﻠﻴﻬﻢ ﻭﻻ ﺗﺆﺩﻱ ﻟﻬﻢ
ﺣﻘﻮﻗﻬﻢ . ﺑﻞ ﻛﻦ ﻭﺳﻄﺎً ﺗﻌﻤﻞ ﻓﻲ ﺫﻟﻚ ﺑﻤﺎ ﻳﻘﺘﻀﻴﻪ
ﺍﻟﺸﺮﻉ ﺍﻟﻤﻄّﻬﺮ . ﻭﺗﻌﺪّﻯ ﺁﺩﺍﺀ ﺍﻟﺤﻘﻮﻕ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺍﻻﺣﺴﺎﻥ ﺇﻟﻴﻬﻢ
ﺑﺎﻟﻘﻮﻝ ﻭﺍﻟﻤﺎﻝ ﻭﺍﻟﻔﻌﻞ ﻭﺍﻟﻌﻮﻥ
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< ﺇﺫﺍ ﻗﺎﺑﻠﺖ ﺃﺧﺎً ﻟﻚ ﻓﺮﺣﺐ ﺑﻪ ﻭﺃﺳﺄﻝ ﻋﻦ ﺣﺎﻟﻪ ﻭﻣﺎ
ﻳﺨﺼﻪ ﻣﻤﺎ ﻳﺮﺿﻰ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺴﺄﻝ ﻋﻨﻪ ، ﻹﻥ ﺫﻟﻚ ﺍﻫﺘﻤﺎﻡ ﺑﻪ
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